[A person shaped by the expectations of others. Why are they not surprised? They did say that he and Frisk were eerily similar, in some respects.]

I did not ask what you think other people want you to be. I asked what you want to be. [They are trying not to sound exasperated, and largely failing.] Do you have things that you enjoy doing? Do you have anything at all to separate yourself from the unattainable ideal you apparently still believe you must be?